Is it the emotion or the intellengence ?

You guys must be thinking what's the question is actually!

To answer this I don't have an answer to be honest. My posts have always been about history and unknown facts for the majority of consumers who consume my blog. Today I've come up with a question instead of an answer. I guess it'll be your consciousness that'll be answering these questions below.

1. People say mother's love is the most beautiful and also to count on love (I say it emotion of bonding). My question is if it's the way it is like how society thinks then why aren't women allowed to make the decision when something comes there way eg : which sport should my child select, which subject should my child opt for ?, who should her child marry?. All this is very ambiguous, keeping in mind that different consequences lead to different opinions and finally to different answers.

2. Who's the actual decision maker? Is it the mind actually or the heart that believes and respects truth. according to me mind is always a hidden thief, when I say thief I mean that it'll only find reasons to hide it's wrong doings but the heart and it's emotions are very clear from the beginning. Just to illustrate an example. (I steal a chocolate which I wanted from a very long time and I couldn't afford it because of my financial situation, I wouldn't listen to my heart at this point and I only listen to my mind which says take it and eat it, because mind has already made up a reason to explain when I am caught). Whose right here? Heart or Mind ?

There is a follow up blog on this context, just looking for answers and what you guys think as a readers about these situations in your own life. I know you might be thinking it's quite personal. My Answer is "YES IT IS, BUT FOR ALL OF US!!! how long are we going to fool ourselves!.